St Mary’s Church Coddenham

Part of the Coddenham-Parish.uk website

A Reflection For Mothering Sunday – Four Years On

by | Mar 7, 2024 | Coddenham Church

flowers in churchyard CH

This child is set for the fall, and rising again, of many in Israel. Lk 2: 34

It had been a strange week.  A short break in a favourite haunt, overshadowed by a gloomy uncertainty.  We drove home as the world around us shut down – or so it seemed.  It is 4 years since I produced the first of what has become a weekly reflection.  A Reflection for Mothering Sunday, 22 March 2020, just 2 days after the nation closed; Lockdown.  For all the uncertainty in the lead up to Lockdown, we had enjoyed a welcome break on the Norfolk Coast.   As we returned home, we could feel the rising anxiety around us.

In 2020 I headed my reflection with Simeon’s words to Mary ‘And a sword will pierce your own soul too.(Lk 2:35); reflecting on the pain as well as joy of motherhood.  In the intervening 4 years we have all witnessed much pain.  For weeks on end many found that time passed without really noticing; others (far too many) will carry the scars for life.

Today I have chosen the previous verse (Lk 2:34); for Simeon’s words focus on the Christ-child, not his mother.  Whatever our aspirations for them, none of us can truly see where life will take our children.  Mary’s son was, and remains, a sign to be opposed; as controversial today as 2000 years ago.  She would bear the pain of seeing him die, and the joy of his rising again.

Several years ago, I was sat, wheelchair bound, unable to approach the altar.  I waited for the chaplain to bring me the bread and wine of the Eucharist.  As she did so I was struck by this simple but profound realisation: I can’t come to God; God comes to me – and it takes a mother to carry him.   In the beginning was the Word, … and the Word became flesh and dwelt among us.  And to those who believe in him he gives power to become children of God:…..  born of God. (John 1:1, 14, 12, 13).   In coming as he did he blessed motherhood.  That is the value God places on human motherhood – let us do the same.

 

Rev’d Philip Payne                                                The Notice Sheet for Mothering Sunday 2024 can be found here

Celebrate Mothering Sunday at St Mary’s at 11.00am.  All welcome.

0 Comments

Submit a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *